For Mother’s Day, Lisa invited me to see Mom’s Night Out
with her. Despite my initial lack of interest based on the previews and reviews so far, I said yes.
Overall, the movie was funny. The opening generated some “are you kidding
me?” eye-rolling and the end got just a tad bit preachy, but I laughed through the
pseudo-realistic adventures during the middle (and longest) section of the
film.
The premise reminded me of other stereotyped wacky
adventures: Date Night, Adventures in
Babysitting, Blind Date (yes, I’m showing my age), and the Hangover to name a
few. Many of the characters are stereotypes
of a sort, although that shouldn’t distract you too much from appreciating the
humor.
Just in case you haven’t read dozens of reviews popping up
in your Facebook feed, I’ll give you a brief summary.
SAHM (Stay-at-home-mom) to three-- with a “means-well” husband who is away on
business so often that their daughter draws him as an airplane in her
crayons-on-the-wall rendition of the family portrait -- is unsatisfied with her
life. She’s a neat freak, control freak, who confesses that she’s surprisingly
unhappy (not unfulfilled, just unhappy) living her long-time childhood dream of being married to a wonderful
man and a mother to three beautiful children. We get a glimpse into her life on
Mother’s Day, which I freely admit I could not identify with in any way.
(This admission leads Lisa to think I’m a
mutant from another planet, because she recognizes herself in most of those
crazy SAHM mommy moments. However, I
have never been a SAHM mom at any time, so what is portrayed in the movie is
foreign to me. Any of you who have worked
throughout your children’s entire childhood (including summers and holiday
weeks off school) will nod with me in agreement.)
Our heroine tells her best-friend-since-school that she’s bought
a Groupon to some ooh-la-la restaurant, they need a night out, and the friend
suggests they invite the pastor’s wife because she looks stressed. After some typical logistics issues (that I did identify with) our threesome embarks
off to dinner and hilarity ensues. I’m
not giving anything else away because from the minute they enter the restaurant
(aura) until they conclude the
evening (call off the chopper…awww…)
I chuckled, rolled my eyes, and laughed out loud. There was no need to identify
with any of these women during this part. In fact, it’s probably better if you don’t try to identify with them.
However, as a mother to a (non-driving age) teen, I did find
myself drawn more to Sondra, the pastor’s wife, always on the job, carefully
managing how others see her, texting
back and forth with her (driving
age) teen about the family’s rules. (A “rave”
is not a party…)
It’s a funny movie appropriate for the entire family; how
rare is that? And marketing it to Mom’s
on Mother’s Day weekend is akin to pushing out a cheesy romantic comedy on
Valentine’s Day weekend. The producers wisely utilized the Mommy Blogger world
to promote the film so mommy groups everywhere are buying tickets en masse and planning
their own mommy night out. I don’t think
they’ll be disappointed.
If you read some of the negative reviews that snarkily claim
an overtly biblical message, I say don’t sweat it. The church is simply the
chosen setting where we see she connects with her friends, and it could easily be
anyone’s parish or place of worship where you make friends and connect with
others. The message that I belong to God
is timeless and in my opinion crosses faith.
More importantly is the message for moms to be easier on themselves, to
not strive for an impossible perfection, to let it go… let it go… (wait, wrong
movie.)
I did enjoy seeing the movie with my sister (thanks sis!), although
I can’t think of a better group to see it with than my mommy friends. Oops, my
mommy friends are spread out across the country, from California to Long
Island, from Michigan to Texas. (Big
shout out to my Sept99 moms!) The point
is, go with your husband, your kids, your mother, your sisters, or your
friends. You deserve a night out, and
hopefully your adventure will be just as hilarious in its own way.
PS - if you've seen the movie, stop by the movie website for more resources, clips, forum, etc.
