Thursday, April 19, 2012

The Path to Heaven


Last year on Good Friday, the kids and I planned to pray at 3 p.m. in honor of the moment Jesus gave in to his suffering and died on the cross.  However, at 2:58 I found myself driving home from our Zoo trip with exhausted kids in the backseat.  After making the decision to pray silently to myself, my then 7-year-old son piped up from the back, “Mom, pull over, it’s almost 3!!!”  Surprised he remembered, I pulled over on the side of the road where we prayed together for several minutes.

This year we planned again to pray together at 3 p.m. on Good Friday. That morning the kids and I watched a few Bible stories about Jesus's life, death and resurrection.  In the early afternoon, friends started arriving for a swim date in our yard.  As the day neared 3 p.m., I wondered again if I should just take a moment to myself for prayer or interrupt the kids so we could pray together. It also crossed my mind that some of these kids might think our family a bit unusual.

In that moment of indecisiveness, I realized that my responsibility as a mom is to live my faith out loud for my children.  At 2:59 p.m. I instructed all the kids to get out of the pool for a moment of prayer.  There were looks of surprise and confusion, but no one argued. After reminding them of the reason for “Good Friday,” we had a moment of silent prayer.  Suddenly, my (now 8-year-old) son volunteered to lead everyone in spontaneous prayer out loud. Tears welled up in my eyes in amazement at his sincerity and confidence in his faith in front of his peers.  While I can't recall his exact words, it was a very powerful moment and I remember thinking, “Wow, my son really gets it!” 

Later I asked him what he thought of interrupting the play date to pray together. He said, “Mom, that was cool.”   Even our children recognize the need for something truly powerful in their lives.

My job as a parent is to lead my children on a path to heaven.  Days like Good Friday make me wonder, who is really leading whom on this path?  Through their small acts of pure faith, my children teach me how to live the Good News out loud.

Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.  Luke 18:17

Saturday, April 14, 2012

Q&A about Catholic Family Fun

Catholic Family Fun book coverToday we're excited to be part of a blog tour promoting the book Catholic Family Fun: A Guide for the Adventurous, Overwhelmed, Creative, or Clueless written by Sarah Reinhard. You may recognize Sarah's name as the author of two books in last month's Lenten book giveaway.

We'll post our review of the book later this month, but first wanted to share some of our questions with Sarah about her writing process.

Sarah, I really enjoyed this book, particularly the way you offered suggestions to add an element of faith in so many different ways. I wish I'd had this when my daughters were little. What was the best part of writing this book?
--The subtitle definitely has a soft spot for me, but I also enjoyed tapping into fun family activities to share with others.

So which word from the subtitle do you think best describes your family?
--Depends on the day...I usually start adventurous and creative and then dissolve into overwhelmed and clueless.

What do you hope people take away from your book?
--It's my hope that families are inspired to spend time together, have fun with it, and get some ideas for weaving faith into their fun.

I'm so impressed that you're able to write your books while raising your family. Did you have a special habit that helped you write the book?
--I gave myself a weekly goal. When it got to the wire and I hadn't met it, I prayed, called friends, and asked for help.

What's your favorite part of the book?
--Favorite part of the book: the index, where you search based on cost, prep time, and activity time.

The index is pretty cool as a quick answer to "Ahh- what could we do today?!" What about your favorite activity?
--Horseback riding.

Okay, horseback riding is your favorite, but which activity would you say your family actually does the most often?
--We ride every single week, unless someone's sick or there's extenuating circumstances...so that's the winner all around!

So, how many of the activities have you done with your own kids?
--Ummmm...in one form or another, probably the majority of them...which is to say, at least horse riding. :)

In all honesty, I identified with "Be 'Crazy.'" When you write, what do you have on your writing playlist, if you have one?
--I have a couple of writing playlists. One is all Ave Marias. Another has songs that make me happy. Then there's the "desperation" playlist.
Ah, so what's on the "desperation" playlist?
--There's Matchbox 20, Faith Hill, Taylor Swift, and Beethoven. Specifics vary by level of desperation

Where else can people learn more about you and the book?
--The book's website is CatholicFamilyFun.com and it has a Facebook page too. In both places, I share fun stuff (and hope others will too).




Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Open to Christ

Christ is Present in the Mass
Several years ago, I joined a category of Catholics who were lamenting a loss of connection with the beauty of the Mass, saying “I don’t get much out of the Mass”. Those of us in this trap tend to criticize and blame our feelings on the priest, his accent, the homily, the facilities, the music, crying babies, or misbehaving children for feeling unfulfilled during our weekly obligation. I also fell into the trap of wanting to “learn something” each week, closing my eyes to the pure beauty of the scripture and prayers in our celebration. Instead, I went seeking answers in Protestant bible studies and spiritual books.

Then I stumbled on a book in my local Christian bookstore that changed my faith and the way I view the Mass forever. Matthew Kelly’s words in “Rediscovering Catholicism” hit me square in the head like a ton of bricks.
“We don’t go to Mass to socialize. We don’t go to be entertained. We go to receive. We go to Mass to be fed and nourished by the Word of God – both in Scripture and in Sacrament. Open your heart, open your mind, and open your spirit.”
I realized the problem wasn’t with my priest, his homily, my parish or the Mass of the Catholic Church. It was with me. My focus had drifted from the true purpose and intention of the Mass. I was asking it to provide something to me without my being completely open to receive it. And in doing so, I missed the wonderful gift Christ wanted to grant me each week. Jesus was there, waiting for me every Sunday, ready to fill me with the Holy Spirit, if I would just allow Him.
“Mass is about receiving the body and blood of Christ, not just physically, but spiritually … Rediscover the wonder.”
Recognizing that Christ is waiting for me each week in the Mass, I began to pray, "Lord, help me be as really present to you, as You are really present to me." This prayer centers my focus on the gift Christ gives us through the holy Mass and helps me open myself to receive Him in the Sacrament.

The truth is – if we don’t “get anything” out of Mass – the fault is our own, because the thing we are supposed to “get” is always present for us in the holy Mass. Jesus and the Holy Spirit. So, we must ask ourselves – What are we there for? What were we hoping to “get”. If seeing Jesus, as the priest holds up the Eucharist and proclaims “the body of Christ,” and receiving Him and the Holy Spirit in Communion and the Word of God isn’t the primary reason you attend Mass, maybe it is time to spend some moments reflecting on what Christ truly offers us in the beautiful Sacrament of Eucharist within the Mass.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Obama Sets a Chilling Tone


(Chris Kleponis/Bloomberg / April 2, 2012)

"Ultimately, I am confident that the Supreme Court will not take what would be an unprecedented, extraordinary step of overturning a law that was passed by a strong majority of a democratically elected Congress.  I just remind conservative commentators that for years we have heard the biggest problem on the bench was judicial activism or a lack of judicial restraint. That an unelected group of people would somehow overturn a duly constituted and passed law. Well, this is a good example and I am pretty confident that this Court will recognize that and not take that step,"
 This is a confusing and alarming statement made by the President, since his background is in the law. If the President made these remarks, knowledgeable of the foundation of our country then we should be alarmed at the blatant disregard he shows for the structure and divided power of our government.

Our Constitutional Government
3 Branches of Government
The founding fathers, in the Constitution, split federal power between three branches of government, each with unique Constitutional authority and powers to act as a check on the power of the others. The Legislature writes and passes the laws; the Executive enforces the laws; and the Judicial branch reviews and rules on the Constitutionality of the laws.  As set out in the Constitution, the President, with Senatorial review, appoints federal judges and justices for life.

There are many instances throughout the history of the US of the federal courts, including the USSCT ruling a federal law unconstitutional. For the President to suggest that his signature piece of legislation is above judicial review by the Supreme Court is at the height of hubris. No federal law, short of an Amendment to the Constitution itself is above a review by the Supreme Court.

Expansion of Federal Power
Although we won’t know the Justices decision until June, reading through questions asked by the Justices during the three days of oral argument last week before the court, you are left with the impression that certain Justices are uncomfortable with the expansion of power given to the federal government under this law.

 Justice Kennedy, commonly considered the swing vote on close 5-4 decisions, stated…
But the reason, the reason this is concerning, is because it requires the individual to do an affirmative act… And here the government is saying that the Federal Government has a duty to tell the individual citizen that it must act, and that is different from what we have in previous cases and that changes the relationship of the Federal Government to the individual in the very fundamental way.
Several justices also appeared to be concerned in their questioning about a lack of limit to the expanded federal power sought by the Solicitor General for the United States through the Commerce Clause. Arguably, this Healthcare law assigns the federal government the power to force an individual to act under the Commerce Clause.  Previous precedent holds that the government can restrict or regulate an individual actions, but has never required an individual to take action simply for residing in the country.  To uphold this law would fundamentally change the role of the federal government to the individual.  

Mandate for Car Insurance vs. Health Insurance
The great fallacy in the comparison of a mandate of car insurance to a mandate of health insurance is the fact that before you are required to purchase auto insurance, the individual must first purchase a car to drive on public roads. This action – initiated by the individual – can be regulated by the government. You are not required to purchase car insurance if you do not own or drive a car.  However, in this law, the Government initiates the action - requiring the individual to purchase something for no other reason that being alive and living in this country.

Lack of a Severability Clause
Unfortunately for the President and the supporters of the Healthcare law, the Democrat Senators removed the severability clause present in almost all legislation.  This clause, when present, provides that if one section of the law is found unconstitutional, that section may be severed and the remainder of the law may stand.  Without this severability clause, the entire Healthcare legislation must be struck down if any part of it is found to be unconstitutional in nature. 

Judicial Activism vs. Judicial Review
United States Supreme Court
The term judicial activism applies when judges or justices create or expand a new law or assign rights not previously found in precedent or in the Constitution.  President Obama is attempting to confuse voters by calling the normal act of judicial review by the misnomer of judicial activism.  The argument before the Supreme Court is that the Obama Healthcare law expands the power and role of the federal government.  Judicial Review is when the Supreme Court reviews the law passed by Congress and signed by the President.  If they determine that the power assigned in the law is not present in the US Constitution, they are required to rule against and strike down the law.  Judicial Activism occurs if the Supreme Court reviews the law, determines the power assigned is not in the US Constitution, yet makes an exception or believes we should have this power, and upholds the law.

A Chilling Tone
These intellectually dishonest comments, along with President Obama’s public condemnation of the Supreme Court during his 2010 State of the Union address, set a chilling tone of deep disrespect for our great nation as it was founded.


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